U2 end a seventeen-year chart-topping career with an understated, and perhaps forgotten, little gem.
Sometimes You Can’t Make It on Your Own, by U2 (their 7th and final #1)
1 week, from 13th – 20th February 2005
Understatement is all relevant, of course, and for many acts this would count as a bombastic power-ballad. By U2’s standards though, it is gentle and stripped-back. It had been written around five years earlier, about Bono’s father, who died from cancer in 2001. (The line: It’s you when I look in the mirror, And it’s you when I don’t pick up the phone…taps so sharply into many father-son relationships.) According to the band, the song went through a lot of workshopping, away from a traditional Irish sound to something more contemporary. And I’m glad they spent the time to bring it to fruition.
It still has a folksy feel, especially in the intro, which reminds me of Fleetwood Mac’s ‘Man of the World’. Bono’s vocals are impressive – possibly his best performance on any of their chart-toppers – especially in the middle-eight, in which the song switches to something more predictably soaring. The Edge’s guitar chimes in trademark fashion, and we get briefly swamped in over-production, before ending on a sparser note.
I suppose it would be a lot to expect the biggest band in the world™ not to give in to that glossy sheen, when they have unfettered access to the best equipment and producers, but I would be interested to hear an even more restrained version of this ballad. Not that this gets spoiled by the production, not at all, but it’s a tempting thought. We have the low sales climate of early 2005 to thank for U2 enjoying two #1s from the same album for the first time, and their first chart-topper that isn’t a lead single. Not for the first time in the last couple of years a grim situation for the record industry has led to some interesting chart hits. This is also one of the longest-titled number one singles, from one of the shortest-titled chart-topping acts.
Actually, despite often being down on U2, and Bono in particular, I have enjoyed almost all of their six number ones, with one notable exception. Not counting their feature on ‘Take Me to the Clouds Above’, I would rank them thusly, in ascending order. ‘Beautiful Day’ >>>>>>>>>>>> ‘The Fly’ > ‘Discotheque’ > ‘Sometimes You Can’t Make It on Your Own’ > ‘Desire’ > ‘Vertigo’. Because, at the end of the day, rock bands are at their best when they rock.
The UK Number Ones Blog 
It’s U2 at their more low-key sensitive, and rather good it is too. I’m not going to listen to it much since my dad died, I’m still traumatised by that and avoid anything that reminds me of it, but it is a good record. My own fave off that album was City Of Blinding Lights as I too tend to prefer their rockier tracks on the whole and they are one of the top live acts I’ve seen – but sometimes the more thoughtful tracks shine too: I Still Havent Found What I’m Looking For is stunning, and One. This sits nicely with them.
Sorry to hear that this one stirs emotions up for you. I suppose that’s the sign of a good song, in a way.
Thanks, and its unavoidable in life I suppose as one gets older, especially for songs played at funerals and the like. I took my aunty to see Supreme Queen last night, and up popped Another One Bites The Dust, played at my Uncle’s funeral as a dark joke 5 years ago. It certainly alters the song on re-listen….
I’m starting to like U2 more than I expected. I just hit my late-twenties and maybe it’s a product of aging, I dunno. I feel like some artists like U2, Dire Straits, Bob Dylan, Neil Young, and Steely Dan you appreciate more the older you get. There was a period where I just wanted to dislike them because of how uncool they were and how pretentious and up their own arse and annoying they come across (particularly Bono), but I can’t deny, they’ve got some terrific songs. U2 are more of a songs band for me, I love quite a number of their songs and a few of their songs would rank in my Top 500 like “Sunday Bloody Sunday” and “With or Without You”, but in terms of complete albums, only a few really hold up from start to finish for me (the big one is The Joshua Tree which I agree with the critical and popular consensus that it’s a masterpiece).
This is a decent song. I like it. It’s a nice mid-tempo rock song, almost a ballad. It’s nice it got to No. 1 and it’s cool U2 have seven chart-toppers in the UK. Farewell to U2. I don’t think they’re getting to No. 1 again in the UK, unless Bono or The Edge dies.